Updated: Apr 10, 2020
Many lovers see February as a month of love, with Valentine’s Day playing out in chocolates, flowers and other passionate declarations. In light of this often-pricy annual celebration, many couples have adopted a healthy dose of financial pragmatism.
For Ester Ochse, Channel Head at FNB Financial Advisory, the delicate balance between financial guidance and relationship openness is an essential part of the service she offers clients. “Be in love and happy, but also talk about the real issues in life,” she advises. “Having an open and honest financial engagement from the outset can make your relationship stronger.”
Couples and families don’t usually talk openly and honestly about their finances, notes Ochse. People come with expectations about the roles their partners have to play and tend to equate money with love.
Financial Guidelines For Couples:
1. Adopt a formal approach
A formal approach to money management is the most beneficial one. Understand the broader family tree and other financial responsibilities affecting your partner. Individuals often forget about matters such as helping siblings with university costs, taking care of the elderly, or expenses associated with supporting family members. Documenting expenses can help clarify responsibilities and eliminate disputes.
2. Seek financial advice
It is advisable that couples consult separately with a financial planner to avoid making popular decisions aimed at pleasing just one party. For example, an estate planning discussion in the presence of another party can be difficult. Once mutual understanding is established between the couple, a joint financial consultation becomes much more rewarding.
3. Review your financial plan
It’s important for couples to review their financial portfolios after a major life event such as marriage, birth of a child, death or even the dreaded divorce. The law allows for a three-month periodic adjustment of the will. If left unchanged, your finances can be negatively affected. This is also an opportunity to review financial solutions available in the market and select ones most suitable to your new circumstances.
4. Draw up a will
An updated and valid will is a starting point for any financial discussion between couples. Most couples know if they are married out of community of property, with or without accrual, or they understand implications of cohabitation but don’t always review their estate. A will is there to protect your estate to ensure your assets are allocated according to your wishes.
5. Understand tax implications
Leaving your entire estate to a spouse is tax efficient when weighed against allocating it to your children. It is also important to note that the first R3.5 million of your estate is not subject to tax (as per section 4A of the Estate Duty Act 45 of 1955). This amount could change in future but a portion may be allocated to a trust to sustain your legacy.
Ochse concludes that couples should not underestimate the value of money on their relationships. “Financial fitness and open conversations are essential to a long and happy union.”
SOURCE: FNB. IMAGE: PIXABAY.